We are in our mid-50's. Normally do a Windjammer Barefoot Cruise in
the spring, but are looking for recommendations for an AI where we can
do as much or as little as we like without being seen as the "old
Farts" at a party-type resort.

We would be flying out of Toronto or Buffalo in early November.

Don't like lining up for food (did that at school). Like to be looked
after, but enjoy privacy. Like to be with fun people of any age group
who are not afraid of a little silliness. And we have been known to
climb the odd volcano ('cos it was there).

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Ian and Lesley